ugh family

The thing about family is that i have a chosen family, a family made up of some blood but not mostly by blood, rather by love and loyalty.
I find when half of your blood family have no clue what loyalty is, you create your own family.
You dont have to bother with me or include me in things then dont be shocked when i walk by you in public with out so much as a glance. Or when i could care less that facebook says its your birthday, wedding day, graduation day, etc. Because when your nothing more than a Facebook friend why should i care? Im not going to wish you happiness and kiss your ass, you deserve nothing from me.
You deserve to be ignored, you deserve to be left out.
And dont ever turn to me for anything because i will laugh in your face.
I give my family everything, love loyalty and respect.  But guess what? Just because we share blood doesnt mean i consider you family.

Thank goodness for Geico

So as I sit here on an off ramp waiting for roadside assistance I thank my lucky stars that Chef isn't with me and I didn't have to call him to tell him that I ran out of gas AGAIN. I am so bad at that game, I push it until I can't possibly push it anymore. Now keeping my fingers crossed that they don't take forever to arrive. I was told under 45 minutes, here's hoping!

I have gotten much better, I used to run out almost monthly. Since buying this car almost 3 years ago this is only my second time running out. But I still don't want to hear Chef bitch lol

Chef is in trouble

Oh boy, chef is in trouble. Busted! Lol he had to park a little ways away from the house today, so when I was leaving and saw open parking I decided to move it closer for him. Guess what I found.........a pack of smokes!!

We quit 18 months ago. I have had my suspicions here and there that he occasionally still smoked. Now that is confirmed.

Hello world

Here I am almost 30 in this technological world we live in writing my FIRST blog!! Crazy I know! Not too sure where I plan to go with this but here I am introducing myself to you.

I, Mama, am a fun loving Wife to Chef, a mom to 2 crazy girls Thing 1 who turns 11 this week and Thing 2 who is 8. I am a Hairstylist to many, a Tattoo enthusiast and a Karaoke singing fool! My husband is a hard working chef, as the nickname implies, he is also heavily tattood and oh so sexy, he is my best friend and my worst enemy, Thing 1 is in 5th grade, shortest kid in her class and loves arts and crafts. Thing 2 is in 3rd grade has a fish names swimmy and has a bedroom that always looks like a bomb went off.  We are your average middle class two parent household, but I am not your average girl. I am quite quirky, will bust a move at the drop of a hat and have a loud mouth! I have your typical Boston accent, I can drive in the snow and I love the Red Sox!

Welcome to my world!